The roofs of Paris

“If you're going to try, go all the way. Otherwise, don't even start. This could mean losing girlfriends, wives, relatives and maybe even your mind. It could mean not eating for three or four days. It could mean freezing on a park bench. It could mean jail. It could mean derision. It could mean mockery--isolation. Isolation is the gift. All the others are a test of your endurance, of how much you really want to do it. And, you'll do it, despite rejection and the worst odds. And it will be better than anything else you can imagine. If you're going to try, go all the way. There is no other feeling like that. You will be alone with the gods, and the nights will flame with fire. You will ride life straight to perfect laughter. It's the only good fight there is.”   

Charles Bukowski

(The view from the top of Notre-Dame)

A dream within a dream

What is reality and what is a dream is not yet completely clear to me now that I have come back to Paris (back home). Everything that happened in this city seems as a distant past, a dream barely, perhaps a wild fantasy that took place in my mind sometime somewhere. I can remember all friendships I made in Paris but they seem absurdly unreal, like it all has never happened. My head is now full of faces of my family and close friends, of our dearest dog, of a huge bed with a couple of matresses one on top of another, of home healthy food, of debates and talks that outdid all my conversations here in Paris where I had neglected almost all the intellectual, the artistic, the cultural. Incrdibly, after a few hours spent here my mind is now beginning to clear itself, to erase and delete all the memories from home and slowly this too seems but a dream. I know not where and who I am today, perhaps tomorrow will bring me a new identity, perhaps when I meet everyone from the dreamy past I will be the same, perhaps not, I cannot tell as tonight my reality is as vague as possible.

Hello - Goodbye

For the last four months I have obtained a new family composed of a bunch of crazy, funny, 

international people who have become basically a part of me. There wasn't a day that we were not together and in the last month there was practically no night we were not together. Of course you realize from the very beginning that it is going to be like this, that you will cry your heart out when they leave and that you will seriously consider living under the bridge just to stay in Paris after the whole thing is over. Being attached means having a really hard time saying good bye - you know that very well in advance as well. You are also completely aware of the fact that this would not be even a half much fun as it is if it were not of such short period. 

But, damn, reason will never help you out here. Life goes on, brings you new mindbogglingly experience, new people, new environement. No, reasoning doesn't do much. And, damn again, I am only leaving for a week back home and I miss my parisian family already.

Learning to fly

I want to run, run over fields and grass and through forests, I want to go and feel the wind in my hair, feel the hair beating my face, I want to tire my legs to the point when I don't feel them anymore and collapse; I want to scream over the ravaging ocean in order to mix my voice with the sound of waves of the sea hitting the shore; spin around until I see only golden points dancing around my head; I want to shake people and look straight into their eyes and maybe I'll see something I've never seen before, I want to ask them about this insane world, I want to see and know —

Can that tell something more? Will broaden our perspective? What do we know about ourselves? What do we want? What do we do here? We drink coffee, we have family lunches, drive cars, marry, argue, laugh... But...

"What is he aching to do? What are we all aching to do? What do we want?" She didn't know. She yawned. She was sleepy. It was too much. Nobody could tell. Nobody would ever tell. It was all over. She was eighteen and most lovely, and lost.

[Jack Kerouac - On the Road]

I am lost in the eternal chaos of my spinning and frantic thoughts. Since ever. But there is some sense making your thoughts into a real chaos outside you — sometimes it really helps — sometimes it's really crazy — sometimes it's about just exploring life and it's boundaries.

 

(Photos were taken in Bretagne few days ago)

Illusion

Every time it is sunny here and if there is enough free time, going to a park is obligatory. Me and N. decided to try a new one last Friday.

This magical park Buttes Chaumont lies in the north-eastern part of Paris and is a real gem when you need some more nature than what most of parks in Paris offer (which is a lot of nicely arranged walkways and precisely cut bushes, but no walking on the grass is one of the first things that tells you this is no place for a relaxed nature treatment). There are even little waterfalls! And a Temple of Sybil on the top of an island in the middle of the lake is completely fairy talish. What is more, just outside the park a bunch of Parisian grandpas were playing lawn bowling. 

Being an eternal tourist here is one of the biggest funs. You live somewhere, yet you breathe life with full lungs. Routine is impossible. Infinite discoveries are there for you. Illusion will break one day, if not before on the day of departure home. However, this is the time to make the most of it. We will think about everything else later.

A Sunday smile

An invitation for lunch. 

Sun was smiling on this careless Sunday.

So we took off, straight to Montmartre.

Italian food awaited us in a cosy french apartment. 

Lots of people.

Lots of laugh.

Autumn colors.

Dance in the tiny streets.

Twinkling at the sun.

Jazz concert afterwards was the third dessert of the day.

Grazie mille dear A., it was a magical Sunday.

G'morning!

Here I am, returning home at almost 5 AM again. Not sleepy at all of course. And it is almost the same every day for almost two months now — going out practically every night, discovering different bars, clubs and arrondissements by night. I don't know when do we actually sleep. I have no idea when do (will) we study anything. When my friends and family ask me what do I do here, I don't even know what to say. I can't distinguish one day from another even though none of them resembles another one, but my brain is always stimulated by so many events I cannot keep a track of the past. It's only the present I can keep up with. Sometimes not even that.

There is always a billion of us strolling around and trying to enter pubs or bars, then when we finally find one that has enough space for all of us (even just standing places if necessary) or that is opened at that late night hour, we get kicked out because only three people out of twenty-five wants to order something. And then we wander through the dark streets lightly lit up by street lamps and lights coming out of Parisian chic apartments. We always end up on the road then (But no matter, the road is life, writes Jack Kerouac). We finish the night by taking the night bus that is crowded with other night birds like us and spend an hour or two or three to get back home. 

Crazy things happen on the way. 

And so, suddenly it's morning.